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If you ever thought about or had sexual intercourse, chances are you probably have come across the taboo subject of giving head. Getting brain, face, carpet munching, sloppy toppy, and 3rd base are just some of the terms used to define cunnilingus, fellatios, and anilingus. This involves your mouth kissing, licking or sucking the genital organs of someone which can lead to intense pleasure including orgasm. While it can be considered the most cherished act of love, for some, it is a dreaded chore that no amount of money can make better. Read on to discover 7 ways to make it more enjoyable.
No matter how much you proclaim to like giving oral, sometimes things can take a little longer than expected to get to the grand finale. For various reasons, your mouth may become exhausted way before the mission is complete. Nothing is worse than the feeling of time dragging on with no end in sight. Instead of the goal being to make the other person finish, use oral sex as a warm-up before other actions or toss it in between for a spicy twist.
Strong smells and tastes can be a turnoff. Rather than grin and bear it, kindly communicate to your partner ways to improve their taste. Depending on the cause of the odor, certain measures can be taken to help.
3. Don’t Swallow
Totally taking everything in and enjoying the warm liquids from the excitement can be an absolute turn on. However, there is no rule that you must swallow discharges. Contrary to popular belief, it’s okay to not want sexual fluids directly deposited, sprayed, or squirted into your mouth or on your body. That should be a personal preference up to the giver of head. Before going downtown, communicate with your partner what you would like to avoid possible negative feelings from spitting or feeling like you have to swallow.
4. Tell Your Partner You Are Just Not Into It
Sexual norms are made up of social constructs that can have either positive or negative connotations attached often shaped by culture. Remember they are just that, MADE UP! If giving french kisses down below is not your cup of tea, then do not do it. There is nothing wrong with saying no for whatever reason.
5. Let Go of Myths
You can make anyone believe something if you repeat it enough. There are so many outrageous myths associated with oral sex it’s absurd. Let’s debunk the following 5:
6. You Don’t Have to Deep-Throat
Having a penis touch the back of your throat is not the ultimate sign you are gifted with giving blow jobs. To be honest, deep-throating may not feel the best depending on who is performing and is hard for many to do. If an object touches the roof of your mouth, the back of your tongue, the area around your tonsils, or the back of your throat it may signal the gag reflex. This natural occurrence can be uncomfortable and off-putting during sex. Instead of trying to take it all in, use different techniques with your hands, voice and licking motions to set things off.
Females are sexual beings too. Females are sexual beings too. No, that second sentence was not a typo. Just in case you were told otherwise, females are sexual beings too. It is believed in many heterosexual cultures that females were put on this earth solely to be a pleaser and they do not expect nor desire anything in return. No matter the sex, receiving head can and should be enjoyed by anybody who participates. If you feel jaded from constantly giving but not getting the same in return, speak up! If you get any response other than a reciprocal one, you have the power to decide to stop unless actions are mutual. From experience, the best sexual interaction is when both feel equally satisfied.
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